Intimate Allies

"Who wants to endure the tedium of a relationship that is institutional and not romantic?"

On December 28th, 1981, in my childhood home and in front of a room full of family and friends, I said, 'I Do!' to a man who had NO idea what he was getting himself into. With only a few dollars to our name and a lot of starry dreams we set out on an adventure as man and wife.

D Some 28-years later, we are still dreaming. Dr. Allendar states, 'A marriage is no better than the vision we have for one another and the willingness we have to sacrifice for each other, to suffer to see growth.' Although I would not elevate Tom and Lorene Rasmussen as the examples of the perfect couple, I would add that we have continued to share a vision for each other as well as our marriage. If anyone has the formula for a perfect marriage, please don't share it with us because we would very likely ruin for you.

D However, if you would like to journey with us as members of a bigger community, we encourage you to do so. Our vision for SacredSpaceBoise and the Intimate Marriage series we are about to start, gives HOPE that others want more from their marriage then just being institutionalized.

D Just like when we said our vows in a living room so long ago, I look forward to what going to happen in our living room in 2010. Join us!"